“Right. If he got laid off from his middle-management job and found work driving a truck, I’m sure that wouldn’t have any negative impact on his ability to keep up.”
Like I said, I lost a job in my field and drove a cab 18 hours a day to pay the mortgage and cover the wife’s law school bills.
And just because this guy may have lost a job does not mean he should be absolved of his financial obligations.
However, I may be backing off my vacation theory and instead going with local hoosegow theory.
You lost your job, fell behind on your mortgage payments, and busted your ass to catch up.
This guy lost his job, is behind on his mortgage payments, and is busting his ass to catch up.
Do I have any evidence that he's working at it? Precisely as much as you have when you claim that he's taking vacations or serving time.