Two comments:
The Chinese [and Vietnamese] in the US are losing their children to the culture also. I have spent many years in (weekend) Chinese school with my sons observing this.
Chinese that come to the US are not typical of the average Chinese.
I saw a number of Chinese (married couples) send their kids back to China for a few years so they are not completely raised in the USA.
Speaking of arrogant, how about China not allowing single adults or same sex couples adopt Chinese kids? Look at New York State now. I bet lots of Americans see that as arrogant.
I dated a woman from China (PRC) who came here in in mid 90s and there was a conservative quality to her that reminded me of my grandmother. My grandmother was a young adult 25-35 in the great depression (in NYC) raising my Mom and she grew up on a small farm and remembered going hungry at at night as a child. Both her and this chinese women talked like it was a sin to waste food, completely at odds with modern day America. They both believe in (traditional opposite sex )married parents.