The first born was a boy. The second born was a girl . . . when the doctors pulled her out an announced "It's A Girl", my comment was "Oh, $hit".
My reason for not wanting a girl was because I was one, and grew up with four of them. We are a pain in the butt, emotional wrecks. I was selfish & did not want to deal with all those hormones.
Would I trade our daughter for a boy? HELL NO!! She is the most awesome person you will ever meet.
I had a boy first. I cried with joy every time the next three ultrasounds showed girls.
Needless to say my son is “challenging”. :)