Gays like to call attention to themselves so that other gays can spot them.
Certainly Straights know what the other gender is, but the only way a gay can spot another is if they are out and calling attention to the fact they are gay.
The word Gay bothers me a lot I have never met one who was truly happy and most have issues.The most openly gay girl in my neighborhood has given herself a boy’s regular haircut is 5’2” and weighs 180 lbs. easy. I would like to tell her she doesn’t have to have a beer belly to act like a boy. I don’t suspect she is very pop[ular as a sex object even for other Lesbians.
Well expect her to declare that she is ‘transgendered’ any day now; since the lesbian thing isn’t working out that is. Chastity Bono is probably her new hero.