I talked once with my therapist about this woman at the time of the murders and (because I was diagnosed as mentally ill) he told me that he had taken a look at the psychological profile of Yates and it apparently pointed out that she lacked empathy and had several traits that killers (cold blooded) usually have. She was hardly just mentally ill. If she ends up killing again (likely), I am more than hopeful that next time around, she gets death. Her husband isn’t at fault, according to many, he suggested putting the kids in normal schooling, but she wouldn’t agree to it.
Your therapist should have taken a look at her husband's psychological profile.
I hope you changed therapists.
Get another therapist.
As to your idea that the husband wanted the kids in ‘normal schooling”, uh, not.