"unapologetically pursued what the writer Paul Monette called the uniquely gay experience of 'flagrant joy.' But unlike some of our friends who rode the flagrant joy train all the way to rehab, Michael and Ben rarely seemed out of control."
Now, think about how different that is from heterosexuality in the first place. How many times do we look at a heterosexual and say, "that guy's in rehab because he liked dating women too much and couldn't handle it?"
Homosexual activists will claim that the prevalence to addiction and other psych problems are the result of persecution or lack of acceptance, but I'll believe that when they show me data that proves gay guys living in the heart of the Castro are just as stable as heteros living in the 'burbs or Wyoming.
That’s funny in a sad way. I know a hetro man who is a serial cheater.. the more perverted the better. His current wife (#4) will do the most despicable things to keep him. The guy is an addict. Seriously. In passing once he made a comment about his father always making him feel like he’s 12.... like he has to prove something. Destroyed from the inside out.
The Michael person is right.. it’s about trying on anything to make yourself feel loved when the Right One is before you and you still reject Him.