“tall, lean, blond, BOYISHLY handsome”
There you have the essence of this creep’s sexual demons.
That might be an admission that he was (is?) an ugly duckling (or perhaps perceiving themselves as such even if they are good looking themselves) and that is why so many gays are abnormally ugly.
Thinking about it, It might be that it's the ugly ones that target the good looking kids as objects of their affection, bestowing much attention, favors and words of praise on them in order to gain their confidence, trust and friendship -- always with a view to eventually gaining their bodies.
So to test this possibilty, check out your gay acquaintances and see if the uglier of the two plays the the opposite sex in the relationship.