The difference is that we who have been forgiven will be judged and rewarded for the things we have done for the Lord. Our sins have been forgotten.
So she was saved? You don’t know and neither do I.
She was an evil scumbag and deserves nothing from us but contempt.
Romans 14: 10-12
10 You, then, why do you judge your brother or sister? Or why do you treat them with contempt? For we will all stand before Gods judgment seat. 11 It is written:
As surely as I live, says the Lord,
every knee will bow before me;
every tongue will acknowledge God.
12 So then, each of us will give an account of ourselves to God.