I have Suetonius and Ovid on the shelf ;-).
It’s funny that when a couple has a large family, people always say, “Don’t you know what causes that?” However, they’re not suggesting that the couple should remain celibate the rest of their lives ... only that the natural outcome of sex is somehow unexpected or distasteful.
(I like to respond, “Of course. Don’t you?”)
The latter is a “victim”, the former are “breeders” who are destroying the world.
Someday, if there is a civilization left to study us, school children will wonder on the madness that has infected our age.