Ignore or take with a block of salt anyone who writes that you should use a specific firearm.
Embrace those responses that ask you a long list of questions to help YOU establish what is right for you.
I would suggest to you to take the NRA Basic Pistol Course which does cover this.
There is a huge variety of firearms. While many may be fit for your use, someone stating so on some forum is not the way to select one.
I appreciate that. There are so many choices that, if I choose based on what works for someone else, I’ll probably be wrong. But, I have gotten a lot of good advice on how to choose.