I think I know what your getting at, but to be fair to you and avoid assuptions, I'd like to give you a chance to explain "government getting out of the marriage business." Don't you even know what it is that you're proposing?
Yes I am proposing that the only governing bodies over marriages be the houses of worship in which they are performed. One of the things that led many away from their church being their central focus in life was the government in large part taking over marriage; Wedding licenses et al....you get government out of marriage and it solves a few problems right away; 1. If you want to be “married” you better be on good terms with a religious official somewhere. 2. Married couples might once again place their God at the center of their marriage, rather than government. 3. If government were completely out of the marriage racket, who exactly would the lavender mafia be suing for the “right” to marry?