Yes, exactly: Jesus does not condemn being tempted to look at a woman so that one can lust after her. He condemns the actual failure to overcome that temptation, which is to say that He condemns the actual act of looking at a woman for the purpose of lusting after her.
Scripture please???
Actually if you look at a woman and have a lustful thought ..that is adultery... One does not have to INTEND to have that thought.or go looking for a woman to lust after .