If it was a man in a woman’s bathroom, I might - just might - alert a manager.
But, since I am a hermit and rarely go anywhere, it’s all very theoretical.
I certainly would never call 911. Nor would I beat anyone up. But I would feel so extremely uncomfortable I would instantly leave.
And if it was not a regular man or woman but a sick pervert, I would not only leave, but I would leave very, very quickly.
There is nothing wrong with being a hermit, if that is how you prefer to live.
I really liked your poem - a cute improv version on the theme of Dr Suess's "Sam I Am".
I do not want it in the park,
I do not like it in the dark.
I do not want it in the men’s,
I do not want it in the den.
I do not like it, Sam I am,
I do not like a woman/man.
I clicked on the reply figuring you had to be a Mom with small children and I replied assuming that. Afterwards I noticed your screen name and wasn't sure I had made the right assumption. Glad that my first assumption was correct.
Thank you for your answer.