That is an excellant point you'v e made, and if you apply that same concept to the koran burning you'll see where those of us who are defending the buring are coming from.
I will never defend the burning of any book regardless of how distorted, offensive or wrong the words in that book may be.
I hope you agree that it is my right to hold that view while still understanding the evil of what some defenders of that book are doing around the world. And I hope you can at least begin to see that my asking people to behave in a responsible manner is not in any way appeasing evil.
It is just my standing up for principle, just as you are doing.