She needs to be herself. It’s hard to tell with a girl her age what she wants and what she REALLY wants. It’s difficult to say what she is best suited for. For now, she is like buckshot: scattered energy.
She is wavering between what she wants and what she thinks is expected of her.
We plan on helping her to avoid disaster for the next few years, and she’ll get going on the rest of her life when she’s ready. None of us is all there at 13!