Seems you have bought into the secular mindset.
A dear friend of min, an Italian immigrant, back in the early 70's surveyed the growth in America's Woman's Movement and said something I have never forgotten. Having studied the Ancient civilizations, he quickly pointed out that throughout history, each women rose to power, they were soon followed by an increased demand for a share of the limelight by homosexuals. Those societies collapsed not long afterwards. At the time, I laughed. Hey ... it was the early 70's and women were only asking for equal pay for the same work performed by men. I stopped laughing a decade ago as I watched his prediction become reality.
When society abandons the family, it is doomed.
Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it.
Santayana
I challenge you to identify anything I advocated of the kind?