Yeah I read up about that electric converter dealio. It started a few years back on one specific model, by now it could be standard issue. I looked up replacements for her model, and there was no additional connection for anything electric. But as you point out, sometimes you need to dig a bit deeper for the right part. And yes that keyless starter -if her car had one- could have been added by just about anybody.
Here's the deal. I'm an old farm boy so I learned motors early. I've worked as a mechanic on high end German cars, and owned many exotics.
This story -as it's being told so far- just plain doesn't pass the sniff test.
I'd like to see where the pinpoint holes were in the radiator.
BTW, my van had a relatively exposed radiator ~ that was due to the fact the engine compartment was larger than that in a car. You could climb underneath and look right up at the radiator without any obstructions. My cars have always been more enclosed. It may be easy to hit the radiator in this particular BMW.
If you have a hot car suddenly spewing hot coolant as a fine spray (with teeny tiny particles with enormous areas compared to their mass) and the catalytic converter is hot as can be THEN that may have done the job.
I don't believe the lightbulb deal myself.
Not to push too hard on the point but people who drive their BMWs through their junkpile may be poking holes in the undercarriage stuff.
This time, I'm afraid, neatness counted ~ and they just weren't neat.