What's so difficult about typing the words "Very respectfully?"
You can even set it in your auto-signature.
"Brgds" for "Best regards" bugs me, too.
OK, I'm done venting one of my pet peeves. :)
In my view, V/R should be replaced with “respectfully” and “very respectfully” should always be spelled out. Most emails that I receive that end with V/R have some trivial topic and are not being sent to upper management or have some other reason to have a very respectfully close.