Sorry I misunderstood.
I think Kelly was conflicted he is polite yet frustrated at the behavior of the ignorant treating a memorial as a rally for political opportunity
And his frustration was definitely justified. I'm not sure I could have held my composure nearly as well if I'd been in his place.
At least things seem to be coming along well for his wife and that gives him something to be happy about; to help take his mind off the other night's fiasco.