That is a lovely vision but today’s “Modern” woman has been taught by feminists that she doesn’t need the father (other than the money he supplies) to raise her children. The result?
The father gets pushed out of the children’s lives with the complete condonation of the state.
He has to pay up in “child” support which makes him have to compete with his own wallet when getting the small amount of time he is “allowed so graciously” by the state and by the mother (IF she doesn’t block access which happens, oh 90% of the time in the vindictive mother ESPECIALLY if father has DARED to move on after she has divorced him)
Then the “non-parenting” ensues. Mom coddles her boys and becomes her daughter’s BFF (best friend forever). No parenting actually takes place. The children are allowed to do what they want when they want, where they want. THe boys become coddles little wussies on ADHD meds. The girls become raging whores with “father hunger” desparately trying to fill the father’s void in their lives.
Dad, if still “allowed” visitation by the mother, feels he has to be disneyland dad to placate the children to offset the parental alienation aka anti-father brainwashing that is taking place by good ol’ mom. The whole thing becomes a viscious cycle. Children become entitled, coddled, and believe they have equal if not superior footing with their parents, adults and any authority figure.
And THIS is why you have so many wussie boys and slutty girls wandering around the streets at age 12. Meanwhile the permissive custodial biomom throws her hands up in the air when Jr. has been caught shoplifting at age 13 for the third time and says “i’ve given them meds and counseling and am all out of ideas.”
Divorce has created a large number of Homosexuals since Dear Old Dad has been taken out of their children’s lives. Chicken Hawks target boys without Fathers.