[Graybeard58]

So which person in a consensual relationship is the perp, and which is the victim?

Are you talking about the "pitcher" or "catcher"?

I understand that in some Hispanic societies that only the "catcher" is considered queer.

[Sherman Logan]

Actually that’s a pretty common opinion across many cultures.

Also the notion that a relationship between a man and a pubescent or adolescent boy is not “queer,” while one betwen two adult men is.

[mas cerveza por favor]

I understand that in some Hispanic societies that only the "catcher" is considered queer.

I call BS. Which societies are those?