here’s the problem, in reality we currently have an authoritarian government. The letter of the law is only to be used against us. All the oligarchy must to do, is to announce a sweeping policy, which will soon be in in force. They will make sure that the full intent of their policy is enforced, but will never worry if their policy fits the law, or even the constitution. People, this is how dictatorship of the proletariat looks.
Some thoughts:
1) Since the military is voluntary I doubt that many gays will join. Those who do seriously want to serve.
2) Gays who are in the military have been living by military rules and tend to be descrete, thereby avoiding issues.
3) By removing DADT the major excuse for no ROTC at Ivy schools has been removed, forcing them to allow ROTC.
4) UCMJ is very strict about sexual harassment so both gay and hetero military personel must comply with rules.
While it is true that Gays tend to exaggerate their numbers most people have a friend or relative who is gay and have learned to get along. Surely there will be incidents and issues but I think the impact will not be as great as many fear.