As a young man with a strong sexual drive I told all my male friends and relatives that they could trust me with their money and other property, they could trust me to tell the truth but they should never trust me with their women. The fact that I am still alive testifies to my ability to refrain from acting on those desires. :-)
If it were true that gays can't control their sexual behavior, then not only shouldn't they be in the military, they shouldn't be allowed out of the house without restraints.
But that's the absurdity of this whole rigged-up tricked-out argument. It's the "bigoted" "cultural conservatives" who stand alone in saying that gays have the same dignity, rights, and responsibilities as any other beings who possess intellect and will.
Controversial? At the University level, apparently.