I don’t go through life worrying all men are after my kids. I just don’t take unnecessary gambles with them when they are at an age when they could not even communicate to me if something were awry. Sorry, comparing a guy who runs a day care (have ya seen some of the people who open “day cares”) to a trained and well educated doctor is not apples to oranges.
yes I have indeed some people (male and female) that don't appear to be all there but you see that in all walks of life.....your minister, your priest, your various teachers, the bus driver who picks up your kids.....a scoutmaster that doesn't seem quite up to par....how about your neighbor who would love to have your child have an "overnighter" with his,her child????why don't you and your husband have a wonderful anniversary weekend and just drop your kids off with us.....come on now, you cannot protect your children from everything or you'd NEVER put them in a car nor on an airplane. When they're born, build a concrete block shelter, put them in it, and release them when they're 21.....that will certainly make well rounded individuals of them. Granted bad things are possible, but paranoia is not the answer....being careful, astute, vigilant are certainly ways to protect your kids......expecting the worst from someone, anyone, because of their gender is nonsense........by the way, statistically, your kids would be safer with me than with your husband.....many more cases of abuse are by parents than by strangers.....by the way, I'd love to take care of your kids and believe me, they would be as safe as if they were in your concrete block building.....just having more fun!!!