No. You claimed that I had a warped definition of secede, yet you provided no proof. The burden of proof is on you.
Don't fall for the trap. Secession is up to the citizens of that state(s) to decide, external entities i.e. other states, have no say in the matter. They can accept the sovereignty of that state(s) or do something about it(which to me is tantamount to fascism).
If Vermont wants to secede and require all of their citizens to were purple and ride bikes, nothing I'm gonna do about it.