Myself, I think there should be a poll of active duty military about how they feel.
After all...they are the ones that will have to deal with it.
Not our “safe” government or the coalition for the LBGT or LGT...whatever.
There have been such polls:
Dont ask survey published (Military Times)
Next month, the Pentagon is expected to release a report that assessed the replies of over 400,000 service members who were surveyed on the issue.