Being outed like this, and being labeled a loony tunes stalker might VERY EASILY push this guy over the edge. And now he knows she’s waiting for him. Yeah. STUPID!!!!
If she were REALLY smart, she would hunt HIS ass down, and take care of him. He’s out to kill her, and he’s walking loose in the world free to do so at any time of his choosing.
In a situation like that, I believe it’s better to go on the offensive. An altercation IS GOING to happen. Better to make it on YOUR terms, instead of his - at 4:30 in the morning while your fast asleep, and he decides to set fire to your house and blow your head off as you are escaping outside.....
(better to be tried by 12 than carried by 6)