“Obama has 60 days to appeal. You think he will act?”
Well, what did Mitt Romney do under similar circumstances?
I don’t know what Romney would do; with Obama, it is a good chance he will not act on the appeal.
The military should quietly not comply and let they gays sue them in court if Obama does not act. By that time it will be a new Congress and likely Obama would be out of office before the dust settles.