So what you're doing is condemning these innocents to express these preferences in their sexuality. This is a lot of cr@p.
I met a male friend of a friend who was effeminate. I could have sworn he was a homosexual. Later, without any questions from me, my friend told me that he's heterosexual. I was really surprised.
My friend said that despite his outward manner, the guy was always hetero and never had any doubts about it. He got married and lives a normal hetero life.
What you are doing is latching on to stereotypes, and trying to fit a size 10 foot into a size 5 Cinderella slipper.
Heterosexuals come in different personalities - CELEBRATE THE DIVERSITY! Quit being a STERIOTYPER and let these kids be and let their sexual expression alone! They're too young for that stuff, anyway.
No way, I am not condemning effeminate men to homosexuality. You guys put so many words in my mouth. Of course there are masculine women who are not gay and effeminate men who aren’t either. Why would I find fault with that? Of course there is diversity in heterosexuality.
Sometimes, though, people are gay.
Why do you think we are any different than frogs whose sexual behaviors and organs are greatly affected by the water they live in? We are also affected by the pollution and chemicals, especially plastics, in our environment. Our reproductive organs and sexual behaviors are just as vulnerable.