1. He does not have his own place. So he attempted to eject his room mate to have privacy. I stated that before - you are choosing to ignore it because if you acknowledge it then you have no point. He was not entitled to privacy because privacy comes with having your own place. He might have gotten a hotel room.
2. And yes, I would see all of this the same way if it had been a tryst with a girl, followed by jumping off a bridge for some reason or other.
3. Broadcasting it was wrong, but not more wrong than kicking your room mate out so you can get your jollies.
Days before the shocking suicide, Ravi posted to his Twitter account, tweeting that his roommate Clementi had asked for some privacy. "Roommate asked for the room till midnight," he tweeted on Sept. 19. "I went into Molly's room and turned on my webcam. I saw him making out with a dude. Yay."
The kid asked for and got privacy, it's how decent people get along. Why they taped him is anyones guess. Mine is they knew and wanted to humiliate him.
This may shock you, but many colleges and universities have the Residence Advisors ("RA"s) instruct the freshmen at their dorm orientation meeting that if they want to have someone over for sex, they should ask their roommate to leave for awhile. It's called "sexiling." Acquaintances of mine encountered this even at the so-called Catholic university of Georgetown.