Somewhere online there is a video of a family dumping ashes over a cliff and wind blows it back into everyone’s face.
That happened to us!
We took our cousin's ashes to Scotland to sprinkle in the rose garden of our ancestral castle, as per her wishes. We did not own the castle, so we were sneaky about it. Well, a gust came up as I was about to speak, and I got little gritty bits of cousion Alda in my mouth. At least she stayed with me for another day or two!