Everything you’re saying is not only reasonable but inarguable.
And the old saying “you dance with the one that brung you” is also applicable.
The argument that she goes to liberal univesities is not an apt comparison, because it is conservative clubs or organizations in the universities who make the actual invitations. The “Young ACLU fans” or “Radical Faeries” or “Feminists for Crossdressing” are not the groups that invite her.
Gotta go to bed. Night!