ok Joe. Now what kind of actions of her own was Jenn referring to? Did she use “retard” to indicate that, for instance, she accomplished something great, did a good job, or maybe she created a fabulous outfit? No, she called herself a retard because she did something stupid.
Can you not understand why people who are or have loved ones that are handicapped are deeply hurt and offended when others use that label to say “I did something stupid”. In other words, “retard” means “stupid” to people who use the label in that way.
As I mentioned before, this has nothing to do with being politically correct or trying to limit someone’s already limited vocabulary. This has everything to do with people being so insensitive as to use “retard” as a put-down.
No. And why would she?
Can you not understand why people who are or have loved ones that are handicapped are deeply hurt and offended when others use that label to say “I did something stupid”.
No, I can't. They weren't talking to or about your family member, nor anyone who is developmentally disabled (unless you count the speaker), but themselves in self-depredation.
You're wearing someone else's thin skin, for an uninvolved party.
Save your offense for when it is meant.
Unless you are an advocate who makes it their vocation being offended for other people. Then, by all means, go ahead.
However, in the interest of being unoffensive, please let me know when and who can use the word 'retard'. I'd hate to offend anyone if I have to 'un-advance' the timing on my motorcycle so it kick-starts better.