He had dementia, but he could speak. Didn’t much except to ask for things, or people.
I felt they considered him ‘disposable’ because of dementia and age( and told them so!) and the doctor clearly expected me to agree that death by starvation was better for everyone.
THANKS....my husband and I are in the midst of updating our Will, and the Attorney wanted us to fill out the “Advanced Directive”....but, I did not like it.....so, am still debating on what to write in the ONE I WRITE on my own. Your post helps.