As a woman, I gladly take less pay than any male counterpart in exchange for more time off to take care of things for my #1 and #2 jobs - Wife and Mother. It doesn’t bother me a bit.
As a man, I gladly take less pay than any female counterpart in exchange for more time off to take care of things for my #1 and #2 jobs - Husband and Father. It doesn't bother me a bit. ;-)