“So in a financial sort of way, she is already practically a member of all of our families! “
Well yes, we’ve all opene dup our wallets for her and her brood, BUT would’t you also like to open up YOUR HOME to her? After all, doesn’t it “take a village to raise a child”?
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Silly nmh, certainly you must know that there is no need for that, since your taxes are probably already providing her a Section 8 voucher for housing her growing brood.
I'm sure she is quite grateful to you! (not that you have a choice in the matter...)