My advise to any guy wanting to marry:
Learn to play chess.
Play often.
Learn strategy.
I got both Sons, the house, and paid no alimony.
I don’t get child support, though. I don’t need her money.
It is very sad that the feminazi libs have done so well at the task of destroying the traditional marriage.
I know another guy who did this. It broke him, literally. He devoted two years of his life fighting for his kids. He got them. And, now he's got two successful businesses and a new wife and son. He came back stronger than ever.