Don't bother....Those willing to give up the best to settle for less are not real attractive... Cowards that run are not real desirable. Those that run, will run again....Sounds like my wife's sister, who stayed in the same jerkwater town all her life and never amounted to anything - "Well, SOMEBODY had to take care of Mom and Dad". (No, they didn't.)
I bailed in '88 and still have to listen to family members who stayed, constantly complain about the latest screwing.
And a friend of mine that moved to the Phoenix area said it was the worst move he ever made...He tells me if you like living like a lizard, in heat that is uninhabitable for humans, you'll love it. He says his view resembles a nuclear test site....lol
The heat in Arizona isn't a temperature, it's a oven setting..
Enjoy!