She seemed to be after a “tough girl” persona. She had parents that had a very contentious divorce with lots of fighting, and it seemed to scar her. She was extremely rebellious and took off from home young, and signed with a black label.
She seemed to suffer from reverse racism, and said that blacks were not happy she was white and gave her quite a hard time. But her natural talent seemed to shine through. So she really seemed to be a self made person that fought hard to succeed, and I respect that. But she definitely picked up a few bad habits along the way, crude language and all that.
She was hanging out with a black acquaintance one day, and he kept bugging her to see her privates. So she showed him. And that is where she got her name, she said.
It's a sad society we live in, where people are encouraged to pick up low class habits because it is cool, and denigrated as “prudes” when they try to improve themselves.
But frankly, that first video - it was pretty, but man, she was naked as a jay bird. And I'm tired of telling me “people wear that on the beach!”. She's not wearing ribbons with a few sparkles to make people think of the beach. If I was watching that with my kids, I'd turn it off. And frankly I'm so disgusted with stuff like that nowadays, I turn it off even without my kids.
“She was hanging out with a black acquaintance one day, and he kept bugging her to see her privates.”
That approach never worked for me.
I guess I am a prude too because I thought she was too naked as well lol. I was going to comment on that but thought I would focus on the positive for now. It’s good to know that I’m not alone in my thoughts! To be honest, I’ve taken a bit of flack from some of my own family even who think I’m weird that I don’t take on the ways of the liberal world when it comes to issues of sex and nudity. Even my own father, who along with my mother, raised us in going to church and learning modesty, has now become more liberal and jokes (or makes it out to be joking) about my prudishness. Guess he forgets he pretty much instilled it, or maybe he’s ashamed. I never know with him because he’s one that I’m starting to believe talks the talk but doesn’t walk... Anyhow I do digress:)