what about the murder suspect that doesn’t realize he’s a murder suspect that exits the car and didn’t hear your command about empty hands clearly? If he had a driver’s license in his hand he should have been shot and killed because you suspected him based on bad information?
What about if aliens came down and replaced his brain too? You can toss around suppositions all day long but I was there. I know what really happened. There were no “what abouts” the man did as he was told. He lived.