[MosesKnows]

I'd like to have a prenup

I don't need to read further. You are expressing this thought; I love you but with conditions.

You have no business marrying this person. Do both of you a favor, don't marry.

[jimt]

I don't need to read further. You are expressing this thought; I love you but with conditions.

You have no business marrying this person. Do both of you a favor, don't marry.

I'd add slightly to your phrasing. "I love you and want to be your partner for life - but with carefully defined limits."

I certainly agree with your conclusion !

[jagusafr]

my only caveat to your comment is if the one who stands to gain from not having a prenup suggests it. Otherwise, right with you.

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