Exactly. I am over 40 female and childless. I am not ugly nor have I had abortions, there are ways to avoid becoming pregnant without using that! Have also been happily married to a great guy for 24 years.
I have a grown son now and was 22 when he was born and it was not planned...I really never wanted children, not out of being selfish, I just never felt a need to be a mother.
I am happily married and have been for the last 13 years and enjoy and am very content with my life. I know that comes from my faith in GOD first, then my spouse, and family.
I always enjoyed being around older people even when I was a child! My mother use to say to me all the time..Don’t you want to go play with the other kids, rather than being with the *Big People*? I never did...