People don't expect every act to result in pregnancy, because that is never how it has worked. However, in a healthy system, people should expect that any given act could result in pregnancy and they should view that possibility positively. I can't remember the thrill of every act leading the conception of my children, but I can state with absolute conviction that the fact that they were conceived was far more important, consequential and beneficial to me and the rest of Creation than the fact that I was sexually gratified. If, when you make love to your spouse, you think about how you might be enriching eternity, it gives sex the greater intimacy and deeper meaning that it deserves. It is common idea among people that when you die, your life flashes before your eyes. I say, in your imagination, just for a moment, let the unfathomable lives of your unconceived children and childrens' children for countless generations flash before your eyes during sex. It will blow your mind.
for most people, 2 or 3 of those in a lifetime is enough.
If that were true throughout history, humanity would have perished. Enough for what or who? Who am I to deprive souls of their existence? Though having children pleases me, I don't do it merely to please myself. They are not pets. They are created by God, in his images, to worship and love him forever. They will work, prosper, learn, experience, explore, discover, defend, invent, love, cooperate, live, vote conservatively and reproduce. Please don't deprive them and the rest of the world. Be fruitful and multiply!
I really don’t know what you are trying to push, my best guess is that it has nothing to do with a good male pill, but is more that you are against all birth control.
I say that because you keep ignoring the switch on, switch off use of a male pill.
Then you should spend every waking moment making love to your wife from the day you marry till the day you die. After all if you don't, you're depriving souls the chance to exist.
Get back to me after you run that one past the Mrs.