nothing. but the pill does do horrible things to the health of women.
the burden is on the woman. having 10 kids is great if you can afford them and want them.
I never wanted one after being married a few years and my husband also changed his mind about being a father.
the options are kinda limited.
I misunderstood you.
When I was talking about the pill and condoms, I was meaning in the bigger, wider, more general world of human sexuality.
Condoms make great sense as an option on the individual level, I just meant that they were not a culture changing type device, as of course we know, after a few hundred years of having them available.
I would think that most of us have tried them out during our lives, and gave up on them.