You say that "women would want to end that totally one-way street" --- but how would women have the power to do that? If the sterile male can remain sterile as long as he desires, she's out of luck. His choice to make himself sterile will not make him more attachment-oriented, more hubandish (thus she'll be emotionally frustrated), it will not make him more family-building-oriented , more fatherly in character, habit and personality (thus she'll be maternally frustrated) --- and she won't be able to do a dang thing about it.
What in heck could she do?
He'll stay a cripple of a man ---probably go to whores or online porn --- and she'll pursue her career, save her money, buy and furnish a nice little home, and adopt a dear little girl from China.
You don’t like the way that dating and single life are today, now imagine that girls lost all control over this modern sexual buffet.
Imagine that suddenly men could take a birth control pill. It wouldn’t take long for girls to realize that they longer controlled pregnancy, and the resulting income and choices.
I think that the dating scene would change, and girls would quit servicing men, females would rediscover the importance of chastity and positioning themselves for winning the marriage competition and forcing men to commit before giving into them sexually.
We are talking about a pill here, the minute a man was not playing the field, he would stop taking the pill.
The pill would not play a role in marriage, but it would sure play a difference in singles bars, the girls would suddenly have to confront the idea that they are there purely for sex, with no chance of a 20 year income.
I don’t think that females are programmed to play the single sex scene with no chance of benefiting from it.
I think that the singles sex scene would dry up from a shortage of females, and that females would start looking at more traditional, more effective, dating strategies.
His point is that right now, women hold all the choices in a sexual relationship.