Nick Cox, regional director of the Florida Department of Children and Families
talks to Angel Adams about her situation
Posted on 04/22/2010 9:17:52 PM PDT by Iron Munro
TAMPA - The din of Room 168 at the Economy Inn on East Busch Boulevard occasionally drowned out conversation.
Twelve children ranging in age from 6 months to 11 years old spent the past week there, scrambling across the floor, bouncing on beds. Their eyes filled with resignation Wednesday morning; they were hungry and dirty - wearing the same clothes as the day before and the day before that.
Angel Adams, the mom, was asking for help as the children rambled about the room. She was homeless and hopeless, she said. A relative paid for the motel room for a week, and after that, who knows. Her fiance is in prison.
With measured indignation, Adams said somebody owes her.
By the end of the day Wednesday, help had arrived.
Nick Cox, regional director of the Florida Department of Children & Families, paid Adams a visit and, standing outside the motel room with all 12 children present, offered a solution. He said there was room at A Kid's Place in Brandon, a cottage large enough to house a family of 12. Though wary of the offer, Adams agreed.
The lifelong Tampa resident said she wants justice from the Hillsborough County Sheriff's Office child protection team that took her kids away from her two years ago and from Hillsborough Kids Inc., which got her kids back six months ago.
"What do I do?" she said earlier in the day. "I have no answers. My family has been railroaded. Someone needs to pay.
"Nobody's helping me."
She doesn't trust the system, she said. It was a system that despite all the good intentions landed her in the motel, in this fix, in the first place, she said.
Wednesday morning, in the dingy motel room, Adams handed out a list of her children's names and ages. Across the top: "Three fathers. One Mother. Fifteen Children."
One of them, a 1-year-old, is named John the Baptist Brown.
Ten of the children, she said, were fathered by Garry Brown, currently serving a five-year prison term for dealing cocaine. A sampling of his kids' names: Garry Nesha, Garry Brown Jr., Garry Lethia, Garryiell and Garry Rick.
Cuban sandwiches and packaged noodles were donated during the motel stay. In the room, a microwave sat on top of a small refrigerator. No stove. One sink. One toilet. One shower. Everyone walked barefoot over a grimy green carpet.
The smell of dirty diapers filled the room. Jerome, 11, gave Andrew, 6 months, a bottle. "This is not comfortable," Jerome said.
The baby coughed and spit up on Jerome's hand. He didn't flinch and patted the baby on the back.
"The girls sleep on one bed," Adams said. "The boys sleep on the other. I just crash on the floor."
The 12 kids are the youngest of 15, she said. Three have "aged out," meaning they have turned 18 and are on their own, no longer a part of the child welfare system.
"I can have as many as I want to," she said. All her kids, she added, "are gifts from God."
The 37-year-old mother doesn't work. "This is my work," she said, gesturing toward the bunch. "I do this all by myself. I don't know what I'm going to do. This is a revolving door going nowhere."
She said her problems began two years ago when Brown was arrested and the money dried up. Right after that her children were taken away and put in foster care over allegations of neglect, she said.
Hillsborough Kids stepped in and took the case, eventually returning the children to her and Brown. Before Christmas, the couple took a two-bedroom apartment off North Boulevard near Columbus Drive.
Hillsborough Kids agreed to pay the $800 a month rent after caseworkers inspected the apartment and, although finding it a bit cramped, said it was OK.
The landlord, who evicted Adams in March, thought differently.
Sandy Chiellini said Adams showed up to sign the lease with Brown and one child. She didn't learn until later that there were 11 other children. There were problems with plumbing; downstairs tenants were flooded. There was noise. Occasional visits from police. Other tenants were complaining. Some left.
She said Adams' apartment was trashed. Clothes and food were scattered everywhere. Screens were broken out. Chiellini began eviction proceedings. Adams failed to show up for two eviction hearings.
Chiellini said Adams and her children left on April 15, taking only the clothes on their backs.
Cox said opinions about Adams aside, the children are the main concern. He said she loves the kids and they love her, and the department does not want to split the family.
Lodging at A Kid's Place is temporary, and department caseworkers will have to figure out how to place the Adams family in a permanent home. That's down the road, he said. For now, at least they are out of the hotel room.
"My children fear DCF," Adams told Cox outside the motel room Wednesday afternoon. "I do, too."
"I want to make sure right now you and your kids are not living in a hotel room," he responded.
Still, Adams was hesitant. She wanted to know about the long term.
"I need money," she said. "I need transportation. My children need a place to live."
Hillsborough Kids spokesman Elaine Olszewski said her agency has been working with Adams for months, and there is a system of support at work behind the scenes.
Case managers have been in constant contact with Adams, Olszewski said.
Typically, single moms in similar situations have frequent visits by caseworkers, who work with charities in the community and coordinate grant money to pay for services.
"It's on a case-by-case basis," she said. "It's not that we would financially support them, but we are connected to community partners that provide assistance."
The goal when children are removed from the home is to get them back with their parents, she said, and caseworkers try to work to that end.
"Children always are better with their biological parents," she said. "Once we determine they are safe and everything is appropriate, there's a six-month period when they still are technically in the system. We continue to monitor the kids."
She said all the children of school age are enrolled and going to school, although Adams said they have not attended classes since she took up residence in the hotel. She said she can't get them to school.
"There's a lot of support out there," Olszewski said, "and we kind of direct them. She has the support from the community, churches and family members."
What, and why? Because she has made bad choices, choices with real, serious consequences? Now "somebody owes her?" No, no-one owes her anything at all. Period. She owes it to her kids to provide for their well-being. Maybe she should have considered providing for her first couple of children by not having any more children.
These kids will grow up to expect the “system” to take care of them too. This is a never ending cycle of entitlement. I’m surprised the newspaper printed it.
A bold statement.
“I’m sure most of them are cocaine babies that will be DEMOCRATS for the rest of their lives.”
There. Fixed it;)
...and I can choose to be responsible for as few as I want. Therefore I chose to be responsible for exactly two. I choose not to be responsible for yours. I will not pay to support your choices. I don't expect you to support mine. Liberty, ain't it great!?
Poor kids
Out of this whole article that leaves me speechless, this is perhaps one of the most asinine, completely stupid statements that makes me grit my teeth at the astounding stupidity of government offices at all levels of government that deal with this.
CHILDREN ARE NOT ALWAYS 'BETTER WITH THEIR BIOLOGICAL PARENTS"!!!!! IN MANY CASES IT IS THEIR "BIOLOGICAL PARENTS" THAT ARE THE MAIN PROBLEM!
WHISKEY TANGO FOXTROT
Sorry. Didn’t mean to SCREAM. No, wait...I DID mean it.
Good God. The entire “sympathetic”, “neutral” and “open minded” tone of this “article” just completely knocked me for a loop.
Are these people all insane? Is it me?
Hmmm... The link at the site for “readers’ comments” appears to be disabled for this story. I can’t imagine why?
Someone need to buy me a sta-amp!
Yeah, their names are Garry Nesha, Garry Brown Jr., Garry Lethia, Garryiell and Garry Rick, etc., etc., etc....
They will pay all their lives for having such an IDIOT for a mother.
And I love the part about how the money “dried up” after what’s-his-name went to jail...that would be the DRUG money he made selling cocaine....what a dad!
Her situation didn't generate a lot of sympathy. Many callers to The Tampa Tribune today said she was the cause of her own problems, having so many children she couldn't take care of them herself.
Some did call asking how they could donate. More than one caller offered to pay for a tubal ligation.
Had it happened one year later? Well, Roe v. Wade may have altered my life.
How racist of you to post their picture. /s
“Are these people all insane?”
The MSM sure is! Notice no criticism of Obamanomics. How would the article have looked if a Republican were president? Hmm.......
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