I couldn’t care less about her self-esteem. She has plenty of reason to feel bad about herself and her behavior.
SnakeDoc
so what do you care about? the souls of those who chose NOT to invite her? the souls of the attendees of an event to which she wasn’t invited? precisely whom are you looking out for with the need to go through a charade of inviting this girl, who you admit brought all of this upon herself and who has engaged in untoward behavior? you are willing to cast as unchristian and engaging in ostracization those who were at the alternate event. i am not. i think they are likely perfectly godly, Christ-following, living-in-the-Spirit, people who decided that they knew her, knew what her MO was, and did not want any drama tainting this event to celebrate their senior year. drama that had already cast a pall over it.