(Some people are just so anti who they perceive as "anti" they can't imagine real concern and real compassion and real family love being exchanged at funeral services like these...simply because you've stereotyped us)
Daisyjane, dimeadozen & Logophile are correct in their responses.
(And may I suggest you visit her at the hospice to pray with her -- and for her -- to your Lord on her behalf?)
Are you saying “stereotypes” are not based in FACT?