How about this...It's private stuff...keep whatever you do to yourselves!!
General Colin Powell said it best: “I think it would be prejudicial to good order and discipline to try to integrate gays and lesbians in the current military structure. Skin color is a benign, nonbehavioral characteristic. Sexual orientation is perhaps the most profound of human behavioral characteristics. Comparison of the two is a convenient but invalid argument.”
Source: http://www.ontheissues.org/Cabinet/Colin_Powell_Civil_Rights.htm