So when some of us do secede, what will you do?
"Some of us"? Can you be a little more specific?
States secede, not individuals. Even if you and all of your friends got together and decided to secede, that would not be enough. You would have to convince the majority of citizens in your state to go along with the idea.
Do you honestly think you can convince the majority of citizens in any state to vote for secession?
It would be better to work to reclaim the culture and institutions of the United States than to waste time and effort on unlikely schemes such as secession.